New Year’s Goalsetting

The new year is the time to make resolutions, right?

Making resolutions isn’t the most productive tradition ever – you’re promising things under duress that you don’t plan to deliver on. Worse is when we make unreasonable resolutions that we can’t deliver on.

Which is why I won’t make resolutions.

Resolutions are counterproductive. "Resolution" by Sneeu on Flickr

"Resolution" by Sneeu on Flickr

I did, however, set some goals for myself after writing that last post. Last year was only slightly better than a wash – great things happened, but I also very nearly bottomed out more than once.

So I’m making some changes, and I’m sharing some of those with you.

These are not resolutions – they’re changes I honestly want/need to implement, and I’ve arbitrarily set the end of 2010 as a deadline. Some of them include:

  • Writing a song a week
  • Recording at least twice a month
  • Writing a poem a week (I already do this, somewhat, but I’ve been known to pull an old poem or two)
  • Quit smoking
  • Read books more than Reddit
  • Hang out with my friends at least once a week
  • Do more nice things for Kerry (flowers, dates, what have you)

I have no idea how many of these I’ll actually achieve, but I plan on being accountable for these decisions. They’re all attainable, and I’ll be satisfied if my success is less than 100%, so long as I can note some actual progress.

This list of goals is substantially less than complete, but I’m not willing to share every last detail of what I intend to bring to 2010. I hope that the year at least rewards good intentions.

Posted: January 3rd, 2010 | Author: Matthew | Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: , , , , , | 3 Comments »